Frugality...

I don't like to buy things I don't need when I can find uses for things we already have,I drive my husband crazy with all the pickle jars I have stashed away.I like using glass,it seals well,you can see what's in it and how much you got and you can use it over and over.I have tried to use plastic butter and yogurt containers,but the lids always seem to crack and split on me after awhile and I don't think they keeps things fresh as long as glass does.I buy rice and pasta in bulk so putting things in jars helps me keep things organised and it keeps the critters out..if there are any lurking about.Plus jars give me a warm and fuzzy feeling for some reason.I think it makes me remember my grandmother with all the jars she used to keep stuff in,like her thread for sewing and jars full of buttons.I used to love to dump out some of the buttons and look through all the old colors and designs.I have a jar of her thread here that I was going to use for some sewing,but I haven't found anything to use it for yet.

Grandmas Thread.



I have found that whiskey bottles make for good storage too.I always buy rice in bulk and I always have bottles around,like I said I can't throw them out.The baby like orzo pasta so the other day I decided to put some of that in a cleaned out bottle.Even though orzo comes in a little box I still want all my pasta and dry goods in one place so I can easily see what I'm running low on,I just peek in the pantry and look.

I also hate buying paper towels.The cheap ones are horrible and you end up using half a roll just to clean up a little spill.I'm not banishing them from the house or anything I just want to cut down on the amount I use.So I made some rags yesterday out of some old clothes,an old sweatshirt and long sleeve cotton sweater and pair of corduroy pants.I want to see if the pants will make a good dust rag.I don't know what else to use it for and if you know me I didn't want to throw it out.I just love rags you just throw them in the washer and use them again...how great is that!

Maybe I'll use some of grandmas thread to make a nice rag bag to hold my kitchen rags in and make one for the bathroom rags as well.Yes,that sounds like a good idea,finally a use for my thread..joy!!!

Well this is a short post today since today is grocery day.The day where my frugality skills really come in to play.It takes me forever to shop because I'm always on the lookout for better deals and constantly reading and deciding on buy one get one or 2 for $5:00 and seeing if it's actually a deal.Then driving between giant eagle, sam's club and aldis I'm friggin pooped at the end of the day.Thank god all these stores and in a nice little triangle real close together or it wouldn't be worth driving to all three.So I'm off to have a cup of tea on the front porch to sit in my 1950's glider which I adore.I love being frugal,instead of buying a new glider I just asked my mom who got this glider for free if I could have it and thank goodness she gave it to me..I love it! I'm not cheap I just like to find uses for things.She wasn't using it and I knew it was taking up space so why not ask for it,sure beats spending a couple hundred bucks we don't need to be spending anyway.Plus I love old furniture and things so anytime I can get my hands on it and it's on good condition I'll take it.Well have a wonderful weekend and I'll see you next week,take care.

Madison on my glider.

Simple things..simple living...

I have moments where I'm overwhelmed with peaceful feelings,happiness.Usually this is after I did the dishes and put them away then wiped the counter down and straightened things up a bit.I look around and see everything nice and tidy then I light a scented candle.If the blinds are closed I open them up or open the front door and let the morning sun shine in.



These are simple things that make me happy.A clean shiny tub and bathroom sink.A made bed and a swept floor an open window letting the breeze in and the smell of fresh air.When the weather is warm enough I open the sliding glass door that's in the kitchen that leads you out onto the deck.I love having this door open all day, the breeze blows in and it's nice to not feel cooped up.Even when it's raining I like to have it open it just makes me feel good.See it's simple things that matter.

When I was pregnant we were not sure about me staying home with the baby.Gordon,my husband,wanted me to stay but I wasn't as convinced.What would I do all day I said.I'll have every room painted three times by winter I said. I can't just sit and not do something,I'll go mad!

Then I'll never forget the night I was getting out of the shower he came up and told me that he didn't want me working and that basically was that.I said I'm not the stay at home kind,I need to work.I'm so used to being busy and running around how am I going to cope with not being busy like that any more.Then he said I think you will be alot happier if you were home.That word sang over and over in my head as he walked down the stairs...happier...Would I be happier I thought, sitting on the edge of the tub.I wouldn't come home complaining and I wouldn't come home with migraines cause I was so pissed that day from all the crap I had to deal with.People yelling at me and making me feel like a two year old.Customers being complete asses and no matter how well you treat them they still crap all over you.Deadlines and progress reports,financial statements and dealing with overhead and inventory costs and weekly meetings and going to school in different states for a week...on and on and on....

I then thought how would it be at home.I would wake up and get the baby from the crib.Go down stairs and feed him,lay him on the floor while he slept and watch some tv.Baby wakes up I feed him again,do some cuddling,then he falls asleep in my arms,I reach for the remote and watch tv.I do some cleaning,get the crockpot ready for dinner later.Grab the baby and a blanket and head out and sit in the shade under the trees and play and take pictures.Then when he gets bigger we can go to the park or go fishing or to the mall or whatever.He was right,staying home has got to be better than being at work,cause when I'm at work all I can think about is being home.



Being home has made me slow way down and thank goodness.All I cared about was making money and having money to buy things,things that just sat around and didn't do any good.I didn't see that there was happiness to be felt and little moments to be enjoyed.I came home and everyday and night it was the same thing and I hated it,but I just thought that,that was how life was for me.I had my moments of calm on the weekends but that's no way to live life a few minutes of happiness on the weekends and that's it...come on!

So now it's making the bed in the morning then opening the blinds and looking out the window to see how the day is.Then grabbing that sweet baby of mine and heading down stairs to feed him and play.Filling up my tea kettle and waiting for it's whistle,having a cup of tea on the front porch while sitting on the glider,making a batch of cookies or some muffins as the baby sleeps or making some rags for cleaning.Just little things that make me so happy now is the best medicine I could ever get.Who knew that just sitting on the couch with the widows open and the breeze coming in while I get comfy for a nap could fill me with such calm and peace.

I'm glad that I decided to have this life.It's not easy at times,pinching pennies for food and bills and having to go without.But I learned life isn't about "things" it's about moments and doing things that you learned to do like baking bread,cooking from scratch or putting in a garden so we could save money on groceries and learning how to sew so I can make my own pillows and blankets.Learning the basics of life that we have forgot how to do because we have other people doing it for us.That's what simple living is to me,learning to live again on my terms not someone else's and learning how to live a more down to earth and closer to the earth easy going way.Learning skills for basic day to day living and being able to count on myself if things get really hard.Yep, I have to say that I'm pretty darn happy.

Tea for me..ya right!

t I realized this morning that,I should probably be waking up at six in the morning.Why you ask?Well, just so I can get in a cup of tea and maybe some cleaning or cooking.The baby wakes up around 7:30 or 8,and it's all about him.I need a cup of tea in the morning just to get me motivated and wake up.As I was taking this picture this morning I had a crying baby trying to crawl up my leg.All because I put him down because the kettle was whistling and I wanted to get a tea bag in my cup of water for crying out loud!
I came back in and calmed him down and played while my tea steeped,then god forbid I left to make my cup.As he crawled in trying to once again crawl up my leg.I made my cup,took him by the hand and we walked into the living room.We walked to the door because I wanted to open it up to get some light in and wake up the house.As I tried to take my first sip,I was almost depantsed at the front door as the baby tried once again to climb my leg.I put my cup down,picked up the baby and walked away as my hot tea steamed away all by it's self.
So,mabey tomorrow I'll try to get up early and see if I can get in some tea,a little me time, and get a few things done.That way I'll have the time I need to take full care of the baby.

Bluebirds

I noticed one day that there are or must be hundreds of bluebirds here at home.Every morning while I'm brushing my teeth.I look out the bathroom window and watch tons of these little bluebirds EVERYWHERE! I never seen them here before,so I think I'm going to try to build some bluebird houses and see if they would like to live in them.

I learned that they can not make their own houses and they must live in rotted trees or old woodpecker holes.They love man made houses cause it's an easy and safe home but,they are also picky on how the houses are made and where you put them.They look pretty simple but I'll still need help with them.It would be nice to look outside and see my houses being put to good use,plus I want them to hang around it's pretty good entertainment.

I'm in no way a writer but I will do my best....Welcome..

I've decided that I have alot to share.After deciding to stay home with the baby I then realized that things are going to be different.Now with living on one income I had to take a different approach at life,which wasn't too drastic for me.I have always liked cooking from scratch and making bread and only being 30 years old,you could say I'm a little different than my peers...and that's ok with me.

In these times of economic difficulty some are saying going back to basics is what we should start doing,and I agree.I mean our grandmothers raised multiple children on less than we could ever imagine and they survived.I don't get caught up in buying clothes and shoes and a different purse every month.I save money by making homemade household cleaners,which disinfect and do a wonderful job!I cut down on paper towel waste by making rags out of old clothes and god forbid...socks!That's right I clean with used socks,gross well to each their own.But they are cleaned and make wonderful dust rags and are placed conveniently under the bathroom sink for quick clean up of messes...like toothpaste on or in the sink..yuck,I hate that.

So this is basically a place I want to come and share my thoughts and ideas and my daily happenings,because I'm proud of this simple life I have chosen.So I'll post pictures and tell you all about my life.I can share it better with pictures anyway...and I decided to write a blog..go figure..lol!

So share with me on this journey of gardening,canning,cooking,baking,a little farming,some baby raising and learning to live the simple life.